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Having
A Fabulous Relationship Is
Easier Than You Think!
Time-Tested Tips That Make The Difference
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You know, even very smart people make dumb mistakes in their relationships
— especially their most important relationships — the ones they have with their life partners.
Several years ago most of my clients were professionals of one kind or another, architects, accountants, doctors, attorneys and other very smart people. And they all had relationship problems. I found I was saying the same things to them day after day.
You see, I wanted them all to feel excited, safe, loved and powerful.
Feel Excite, Safe, Loved
and Powerful in Your Own Relationship
And you can feel that way in your own truly great relationship with your life partner.
Truly Great Relationships always have these ingredients.
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The relationships are always in a state of flux, always growing.
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Both partners are fully themselves: they live their own values.
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Each partner cares deeply about the growth, development and well-being of the other, and is equally committed to his or her own development.
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Both partners take full responsibility for communicating their own needs to each other.
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Both partners willingly negotiate so that resources can be used in mutually supportive
ways.
I Had A Dream...
Then, one strange morning I think my unconscious mind took over. Do you believe in the power of your unconscious mind
— or your higher power — or maybe in channeled writings from some source outside yourself?
While I'm not sure exactly how it happened but this is the story. One night I dreamed this booklet.
I woke up with most of the pieces of this booklet in my head,
and I couldn't get it written down fast enough. I sat on the couch with my computer in my lap for several hours
— actually until my butt was so paralyzed I had to get up and move.
What My Dream Means For Your
Happiness
All of the things I'd been saying to these very smart people about their relationships came out of my
heart, through my fingers and onto the computer screen. It was as if I were saying, "Don't you get it it's not really very hard.
All you have to do is this simple stuff and your relationship will work."
The next day I added even mores tips. Then I looked to see what I had done — or what somebody had done
— it didn't seem like me who did the writing. I was amazed by what I saw.
I confess, somewhere there is a little sassy part of me that I'd been sitting on. I think
she took over and actually did the writing.
But
I wasn’t quite sure it was OK for me to share such blunt advice the way I
really wanted to say it,
so I sent out a call for help. Much to my amazement about 50 people — some of
them very smart people — my clients, therapists I knew, a couple of professors, and other writers
offered to help me refine my work. And they did.
Three months later the first thousand copies
of 124 Tips for Having a Great Relationship were piled in a corner of my
basement.. I was off and running, but I had no idea where I was going.
Why
are there 124 tips? The truth is I just counted them when I was done
and that’s how many there were. The funny thing is that I actually miscounted
and there are really 125 tips in the booklet. I dare you to find the extra
one.
Now, being an author was not new to me. I already had written four books. In fact I had planned to write something else the amazing morning this booklet appeared. It was going to be a booklet to promote one of my other books
— a book on business relationships. I still haven't written that booklet but maybe someday I will.
In any case, people loved this booklet. They kept asking me to do different things with the material. It became:
All of those forms are useful and interesting, but this original booklet, 124 Tips for Having a Great Relationship is the source of everything
else.
It's A Wonderful Way To Start Strengthening Your Relationship
With Your Life Partner Right Now.
Here's why.
When you struggle with your life partner, that pain usually boils down to one of two things. You fear losing yourself in the relationship or you fear losing your relationship by being yourself.
Most of us don’t have any experience of what it looks like to be whole, complete and powerful within an intimate relationship in which your partner is also whole, complete and powerful: a relationship in which you are both fully present.
Great Relationships Make You Both Feel Powerful.
In a Great Relationships, partners:
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discuss values
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solve problems
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play together
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feel free to give and receive nurturing
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mutually support each other
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give and receive help
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connect to and enhance their own power instead of draining it away by trying to please each other.
In a truly Great Relationship you and your partner empower each other and the relationship becomes powerful, exciting, playful, nurturing and creative.
In 124 Tips for Having a Great
Relationship, I show you how to develop each of the ingredients that create Great Relationships. And it’s much easier than you think!
These tips will help you and your partner empower each other to have a relationship that delights you both, and that others will envy and want to copy.
Secrets
of creating lifelong loving relationships
In 124 Tips for Having a
Great Relationship, you'll find out how simple it really is to create the
kind of relationship that really delights both of you.
And it's not what you see on TV and
in the movies. The secret to having a successful relationship is loving and
respecting yourself and each other and showing it through your actions (what you
do — not just what you say)

What You Should Know About Relationships
But Probably Don't
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9 little-known secrets that have been keeping my love alive for 48 years
— and that have helped thousands of my clients and students.
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14 crucial ways to keep your communication flowing smoothly
— because if your communication fails, your relationship fails
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12 different techniques for
getting difficult communication back on track.
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7 delightful ways to have fun with each other.
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8 ways to get those darn tasks
done even when you're both
busy and neither of you wants to do them.
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11 crucial ways to stay apart so that you can stay together -- because two can't really become one;
your relationship needs boundaries.
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12 amazingly simple techniques
for dealing with money that far too many
couples ignore.
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9 ways you can support your partner without demeaning
yourself on special occasions.
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5 critical things you need to do when your apart that can keep you together.
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12 simple things that take very little time and effort to create the
togetherness you really long for.
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17 amazing secrets for taking Care
of Your Partner that will show your love and bring it back to you
multiplied.
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7 great self-care tips that are crucial for keeping your love alive -- so you can stop blaming your partner for the crimes you committed against yourself.
This is an E-Book! It’s a PDF file
that can be read with Adobe Acrobat Reader. All
it takes to get it in the next 10 minutes is to follow the easy directions you
will see after clicking the Order Now button:
But wait! There's more!
I have two free gifts for you.
1) Your Relationship Tips Newsletter: A single tip every week, and
a weekend assignment for you and your life partner to use to create your own
Great Relationship. Reading time only 2 minutes/week.
2) A downloadable recording of a
60-minute talk, Little-Known Secrets of Relationship Development, my husband and
I gave to a group of lay marriage counselors in a church.
And One More FREE GIFT
Get a printed copy of 124 Tips for
Having a Great Relationship — a $7 value — as my gift to
you.
(US mailing address only, while they last)
Let me explain this incredible value!
This little book is my way of making the world a better place. I want
as many people as possible to have wonderful relationships. And so —
I designed the printed version of this little booklet to be sold only
in batches. It is wonderful study material for any growth oriented
book club, church group or marriage study group.
You can also use it instead of a greeting card or as
a gift for people you care about.
If you are in a business or in one of the helping professions, or even
a financial planner, real estate broker or in the wedding industry, you
can use it to promote your business. Just add a label with your
name on it in the convenient open space. I provide instructions.
Since you will be in a unique position to appreciate the value of this
material, you are a potential customer for batch sales. So if I take
on the added expense of sending it to you, you win now and there is a
good chance that your friends and your customers will win later —
and I will too.
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I'm so sure you'll love 124 Tips for Having a Great Relationship that I happily take all the risk. You can only win.
If you don’t think my book is
worth $17.00, it’s free!
124 Tips For Having a Great Relationship comes with a 100%
Money Back Guarantee. Read the book cover to cover and try the strategies risk free for
60 days. IF
the strategies and information are not helpful to you –– I'll cheerfully
refund your money and you can keep the book.
Just click on the button below to order your book safely with our secure order
form.
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Sincerely,
Laurie Weiss
Laurie Weiss, Ph.D., Master Certified
Coach
Empowerment Systems
506 West Davies Way
Littleton CO 80120-4215
(303)794-5379
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